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INSIDE MUSIC: Of Children, Singers & Lawyers!


By Rosemary Conte

originally published: 09/20/2014


Any career can benefit from referencing how it was done in the past—or, who else is doing it now. And so it, is in the development of a singer, as well as an attorney.

Lawyers must know caselaw: The law as established by the outcome of former cases. Law may be the antithesis of art; however, I believe that singers and lawyers need to reference the past so as to build a strong foundation for their future.

I believe the best-sounding, most creative singers are those who have been exposed to the most diverse music from all periods and all styles.

Parents of five year olds who love to sing often ask me to train their children's voices. First, no ethical singing teacher would attempt to "train" a voice so young, because their vocal apparatus is immature and vulnerable to damage. I recommend that parents fill a child's life with all kinds of recorded and live music, and find ways to nurture interest in singing and playing other instruments.

Children develop an appetite for what they see and hear the most, and children learn everything by imitating. They may imitate Katy Perry, Bruno Mars, or whatever voice fills the atmosphere in which they live. My best advice is to fill that atmosphere with quality, diverse music.

Some parents cannot make the time to nurture a child's interest in music. In that case, if I were to work with a very young child, I would introduce healthy vocal expression, write songs with her, listen to a variety of great singing from my library, and play musical games. There is plenty of time to "train" a child's voice. My recommendations train the "musical mind" of a child. The body is a singer's instrument. It is played with the mind. Mind rules!




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If you've observed the courtroom performance of a very sharp lawyer, you were watching the physical expression of a well-trained mind. Like the singer/musician, the lawyer developed his style from a strong foundation of knowledge and the influence of others.


EVENT PREVIEWS

(MONTCLAIR, NJ) -- The Wellmont Theater presents The Wallflowers on Saturday, May 9, 2026 at 8:00pm. The band is touring in support of the 30th anniversary of their landmark album, Bringing Down the Horse. The band will perform their classic album in its entirety, in sequence.
The Newton Theatre presents Lita Ford on May 9th

The Newton Theatre presents Lita Ford on May 9th

(NEWTON, NJ) -- The Newton Theatre presents Lita Ford in concert on Saturday, May 9, 2026 at 8:00pm. With a legacy that spans nearly five decades, Lita Ford continues to inspire generations of musicians— solidifying even more, her place as an icon, pioneer, and true Queen of Rock.
Monmouth County Park System presents 2026 Creative Arts Festival on May 9th

Monmouth County Park System presents 2026 Creative Arts Festival on May 9th

(LINCROFT, NJ) -- The Monmouth County Park System is hosting its annual Creative Arts Festival on Saturday, May 9, 2026 from 10:00am-4:00pm at Thompson Park. This celebration of the arts features more than 50 specially selected artists in a variety of mediums such as pottery, painting, jewelry, and more. This family-friendly festival also includes live music, engaging art demonstrations, and children’s art-based activities.
Grunin Center presents Taylor Simon King on May 9th

Grunin Center presents Taylor Simon King on May 9th

(TOMS RIVER, NJ) -- Grunin Center for the Arts presents Taylor Simon King - Celebrating Three American Troubadours on Saturday, May 9, 2026 at 7:30pm. The show features James Gedeon, Lisa Sherman, and Alice Leon paying tribute to James Taylor, Carly Simon, and Carole King. Limited tickets remain.
Scottish Rite Auditorium presents The Robert Cray Band

Scottish Rite Auditorium presents The Robert Cray Band

(COLLINGSWOOD, NJ) -- Scottish Rite Auditorium presents The Robert Cray Band on Saturday, May 9, 2026 at 8:00pm. Blues icon. Soul man. Rock and roller. Robert Cray is all these things – and more.
"A Musical Celebration with a Purpose" to Bring Grammy-Winning Musicians to Leonia

"A Musical Celebration with a Purpose" to Bring Grammy-Winning Musicians to Leonia

(LEONIA, NJ) -- Everyone is invited to an unforgettable evening of music and philanthropy at "A Musical Celebration with a Purpose", a benefit concert on Saturday, May 9, 2026, at the Presbyterian Church in Leonia, NJ.
Cape May Music Festival opens with "WCCat;100: The Westminster Choir Looks Forward" on May 9th

Cape May Music Festival opens with "WCCat;100: The Westminster Choir Looks Forward" on May 9th

(CAPE MAY, NJ) -- Performing a program celebrating the rich history of choral music, Cape May MAC (Museums+Arts+Culture) welcomes the renowned Westminster Choir of Westminster Choir College in New Jersey to open the 37th Annual Cape May Music Festival, Saturday, May 9, 2026 at the Episcopal Church of the Advent (712 Franklin Street) in Cape May. Showtime is 7:00pm.
Westminster Conservatory celebrates AAPI Heritage Month with a recital on May 9th

Westminster Conservatory celebrates AAPI Heritage Month with a recital on May 9th

(LAWRENCEVILLE, NJ) -- On Saturday, May 9, 2026 at 7:00pm, Westminster Conservatory of Music of Rider University will present a faculty recital in celebration of National Asian American and Pacific Islander Heritage month. The concert will take place in the Gill Chapel and is open to the public free of charge.
Cumberland Players Concert Series presents Steven Lemon and Friends on Saturday

Cumberland Players Concert Series presents Steven Lemon and Friends on Saturday

(VINELAND, NJ) -- Cumberland Players Concert Series presents Steven Lemon and Friends on Saturday, May 9, 2026 at 7:00pm. He will be joined by Della Valla Trio, Lizz Sooy, and Eric Shorter.
MPAC presents The Doo Wop Project on Saturday

MPAC presents The Doo Wop Project on Saturday

(MORRISTOWN, NJ) -- Mayo Performing Arts Center (MPAC) presents The Doo Wop Project on Saturday, May 9, 2026 at 8:00pm. Limited tickets remain.

 

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